Hello,
I’m writing a four or five part article on marriage and sex and was wondering if you felt comfortable enough to answer a few questions for me? You don’t need to go into a lengthy, detailed summary for the questions, and feel free to only answer the questions you feel comfortable with. Some or all of your answers may be used in my articles which will start to appear in the August issue of my monthly newsletter and will be posted on line for public viewing on
www.myspace.com/offthepatch. I'll post a link from here for those interested in reading the article. It will be written from a Christian view point on Marriage/and tasteful.
No one but me will view your answers. You can find my email address and website address on my profile. I WILL NOT make any suggestion as to where this imformation came from.
If your spouse wishes to answer these questions as well, that would be awesome.
1. Your first Name: If you do not want your name published; choose an AKA.
2. How long have you been married?
3. What do you like to see your spouse dressed in when going out on a date?
4. What do you like to see your spouse dressed in after you get home from a date?
5. Do you like to be teased or seduced by your spouse? Give an example of what you like or would like.
6. Do you feel comfortable enough with your spouse to request new positions, use of toys or costumes or other sexy clothing? If not, why do you think this is?
7. Do you sometimes get discouraged by the lack of personal care your spouse gives to themselves? Do you feel they could look after themselves better?
8. Which describes you and your spouse best: wrangling a wild horse; fighting to get it saddled and ridden before getting bucked off or more like a drag race; two hot custom rods, motors running, just waiting for the green light; or like two tug boats passing each other in peaceful waters?
9. Do you feel like you are giving enough attention and affection to your spouse as they would like to receive from you?
10. What would you suggest to a friend who wanted to spice up his/her date night?
11. Please feel free to add a comment or statement.
Thank you for your time and answering these questions.
You don't need to be a member of this forum to reply. Closing date: Aug 10th, 2008
Tina Bell
